I Want to Be Happy" is a song with music by Vincent Youmans and lyrics by Irving Caesar written for the 1925 musical No, No, Nanette. If you try hard enough, it doesn’t matter if you succeed. I still want to move, but can’t can’t seem to make it happen!! On paper, you likely have a lot to be grateful for—so much that it can be guilt-inducing when any feelings of unhappiness creep up. I can’t imagine my life without her but I also want to be happy. So, fear becomes a problem if it is keeping you from being happy. What can I do? Yeah i know i have to talk to a profession or anybody but i over that, enough I don't want to do that and if thats what somebody is going tomtell me to … I feel empty, like there is nothing in life anymore. I’m sorry I can’t give you more in-depth advice than this! That got me very mad when she told me but now I think it’s true. 5. I don’t want that. I want to stay together for our kids and because I think I still love him. Unfortunately, fear and happiness can’t exist at the same time. Easy to say, but what if you can't afford to quit? Remember, you can't make everyone happy all of the time. If you're less than happy with your life -- either personally or professionally -- the problem isn't education, upbringing , a lack of opportunities, being held back by other people, or even bad luck. You can be happy, but not with someone else. Because if I wish one friend a happy birthday, ... but I honestly can’t handle this kind of pressure. I really don’t know what to do. Writing this post made me feel happy. Don’t allow someone else to have dominion over how you feel on a day to day basis. I can’t be happy whatever I do. Is there anything you'd recommend for me? We all want to be happy. You have a body that can carry you through a grueling H Share your journey, and tell someone else your goals, so that you feel accountable. Why can't I give some to you? He says I don’t ever want to spend time with him, but I do spend time with him, watching a show like he wants to do, I’m happy to do all little things too, and S. Not just yet. I am not sure what is stopping me, or why I can’t get a fire lit under my ass to get into action. I've done about 99% of what you've done too, and still felt very much the same. We want to feel that we matter, are loved, appreciated, problem-free, care-free, and financially secure. First, you have to put yourself, your needs and your happiness above all others. I can’t stand the thought of you with someone else. It’s a ridiculous thought! I just want to be happy again, and no matter what choice I take I feel like I'll be failing myself, either in my studies or in my happiness, or both. I feel the same way. I'm getting laid off soon and I don't know what career I want to pursue. Everyone says, "just quit." YOU MAKE YOURSELF AS HAPPY OR AS UNHAPPY AS YOU WANT. If you want to … I’ve been feeling like this for 3 months. I go to work at a place i hate with a passion and then go home and sleep all the time. I have make everyone happy and have to keep them around cause they have no where go. You have a strong sense of independence. Recognize a pattern to your critical inner voices and self-destructive behavior. Or, maybe, you’ve seen this happening to someone else. One observation I have made is that most people who try to do things alone, for any reason, are less likely to be happy. You just have to work on two variables. I can’t run I have no family and feel obligated keep them with me. I get angry too much and sometimes I don’t want to see anybody. I am very lonely and confused, and this makes me scared to leave him because I don’t know if I can do this by myself. Watching all these women have kids who can’t even take care of them or worse, hurt them, I wonder what did I do so bad that makes me not be able to have a family of my own. You can’t change your wife, but you can change yourself. I can't purchase things without reading every single review and even then I get paralyzed by choice. 15 minutes), and use the rest of the day to pursue our own personal agenda. If I were you, I’d stop trying to fix my marriage on my own, and start working on becoming healthy and happy as a man and father. In a flick of the eye, you can see anger, envy, injustice, and other negative emotions. I can’t say it’s all about loving living here that gets to me, I am more concerned about where I will be later in life, and I … I want to be happy for them but it’s so hard I become jealous in a way. The song is used several times throughout the musical as a running theme representing the attempts of various people to please others. My adoptive mother stold my title (mom). Sure, I want you to be happy. Musical. Be grateful that you have a job. You already want to leave bad enough, you just need a plan, some work and a little hope. 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